Divine Birthrights: Being Heard

Ironically, as I am writing about our Divine Birthright of Being Heard, I'm discovering that my Blog updates are not being posted. I am not being heard! I've been writing this blog for over a year now, and no one has "heard" me! Wow.....this is obviously an Energy Pattern I need to heal for myself. Funny, for years I've been addressing the pattern of Invisibility with clients, which is especially common for women, but Being Heard is new in my conscious awareness. And yet (like most Energy Pattern issues) it seems ridiculously obvious now that is is on my radar!

Such is the subtly and profundity that is Energy Patterns.

So here's what I'm going to do about it:

• Find out what my beliefs are about being heard
• Find out how I feel about NOT being heard (so far, this one is a no-brainer: I am So frustrated I could just scream!)
• Find out how I feel about being heard. (The feeling immediately coming up as I write this is fear of prosecution).
• I don't feel betrayed by God/dess/etc or anyone else, so that's good. That tells me I don't have a victimhood program running in conjunction with this.
• Following the principle of "As Above, so Below", if there's a problem with my Being Heard, then there's going to be a problem with how I hear others. So I need to get clear on my end of things - what is is I THINK I am doing versus what is it I HAVE BEEN doing. And so I need to clean up my side of the street. I will call some close friends and ask for their feedback. 
• I will choose people I know will be honest with me, and are likely to be balanced (example: my mom will have a biased opinion; either she will be too hard on me, or too sweet and accepting, and make some excuses. Neither is helpful. Such are family members, God/dess/etc love 'em!)
• Be honest, myself. If I invalidate their feedback because it's painful, I won't be able to fully heal the pattern. I need to accept what is, love myself anyway, and move forward with the healing process.
  
• Sit down with my charts, The Guides and Angels, and delete this Energy Pattern and its supporting patterns, and weave in new Patterns.
• It's also obvious I DO have the Pattern of Being Heard on key levels, as evidenced by the fact that I am fully functional as a native speaker of a spoken language; I am not physically mute and there is nothing physiologically or pathologically wrong with my ability to speak. Thank God/dess/etc! I am profoundly grateful for that! (If you can't speak well, people can't hear your intended communication correctly; you won't accurate Be Heard)
• Do some journalling around what it looks like when I am (finally!) fully heard. 
• How my manifestations will change, 
• and how my relationships will change, as a result in the change in my vibration.
• I will do some EFT tapping, as well, to clear out any residual energy, as well as help activate the new patterns.

In short, I wll do everything that I'd tell you to do!


And although I am fully capable of speech to the extent of verbosity and loquacity, if there is a disconnect around my being heard, I will experience (as indeed has been the case) discrepancies between my intended manifestations, and my actual manifestations.  Such is the criticality of healing ones Energy Patterns! 


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As always, I am gratefully in your service! Blessings to you all,

- Caitlyn
www.7StarEPH.com

Divine Birthrights: Receiving

Receiving is the final step in manifesting. What it is, exactly, we receive, is equally shaped by our Energy Patterns as what we ask for (Step 1) and the Response we get from the Universe (Step 2). Just like our beliefs, Energy Patterns are in effect at every level of the manifestation process.
We already know that the stories we have around our worthiness effect both our Asking and our Receiving. The kicker is that our Energy Patterns even more powerfully - and subtly - influence this process. The easy (or easier, really) part of staying empowered to create positive change is to address our conscious levels of interaction with the universe. Translation: Our thoughts and feelings are the conscious levels of our creative process. The Subconscious and Superconscious levels are trickier because they are not nearly so obvious. It is at these levels that Energy Pattern Healing is done. EPH clients are given homework to activate these new patterns on the Conscious, 3D levels.

In order to Receive what it is we actually want instead of being at the mercy of rogue Energy Patterns and beliefs, we need to change not only our Patterns around the acts of Asking and Receiving, we need to change our Patterns around what it is we're wanting.

Example:
An entrepreneur wants more customers. She has done her homework around being worthy of asking for what she needs, as well as having her needs met, e.g. Receiving. However, if she has not changed her Patterns around people and relationships, the customers she receives will reflect that. Even the quantity of customers is affected.

Since Receiving is one of our Divine Birthrights, it is natural to feel frustrated and disappointed when what we Receive is not what we truly intended. It's important not to dismiss the feeling as the problem. Instead of reacting with "Oh - I need to change how I feel about  this", we need to look deeper and find the Pattern that has manifested. Our reactionary feelings are key indicators of the degree to which our Energy Patterns are in alignment with our intentions for ourselves.

SO, if you're manifesting not quite what you intend, keep tweaking!  Keep at it! The more diligent you are, the closer you are to Mastery!

Gratefully in your service,
Caitlyn
www.7StarEPH.com

"Outvibing" Your Energy Patterns

Some popular teachings really push the idea that all you have to do is focus on the positive and everything you want will manifest beautifully. Those of us who have been doing this for a while (say, oh... 10 years) have discovered that while YES it makes a big difference, it's just not that simple. If it were that simple, we'd only need one healing modality, not dozens.

Case in point: I know a gal who has been studying vibration shifting longer than I have, and has, for the last 10 years, been meditating on, focusing on, creating vision boards for, etc, her Right and Perfect husband.

And of course, she has - just like the rest of us - a lot of overcome: a worse-case scenario alcoholic upbringing (etc etc), but she's been Vibing! Good for her! AND, an important part of this puzzle is that she never got any real councelling or did 12 step Recovery as an adult, nor any other serious healing. But BOY did she keep her vibe up! And her physique. She runs marathons, is an aerobics instructor, is reasonbly wealthy, is well-educated and she's pretty.

Take a moment to think of what her relationships have been like, with all this vibing.... hnmmm... looks good, doesn't it?

And here is her outcome:

• Her most recent steady relationship ended 11 years ago.
• She has had a series of one-night-stands, several of whom have been coworkers.
• A string of married men wanting to make her their Other Woman. Many of these are coworkers, too.
• A string of men who just like her as a friend.

FINALLY hope shone through: she went to a very powerful Astrologist for a reading for her birthday for the year, and as it turns out, ALL her planets are in her Relationship House this year! Yay! Finally she'll get what she wants!

What she manifested was this: she was sexually assaulted by a married friend. She was devastated. AND her relationship with her alcoholic mother also hit an all-time low.

This story has several morals:

1. When all your planets line up like that, it reveals what your Energy Patterns ARE, not what you think they might be, or wish them to be.
2. You canNOT outvibe your Energy Patterns.
3. If you want to change your foundational vibration, you must do your nitty-gritty, in-the-trenches shovel-swinging. If you want it to stop stinking, you MUST muck out the barn. You can't vibe away the manure.

This is because your Energy Patterns are the vessel that gives form to your 3-D existance. Therapy, 12 Step Recovery, and any other work that gets you swinging that shovel is critical to changing your foundational vibration.  Wounds that are not healed are trapped energy and are therefore part of that foundation. And once healed, you then have freedom of choice around your manifestations. Energy Pattern Healing is an important tool to clearing away all that manure. It  helps you uncover the Riches buried under your manure!

Love and blessings,

Caitlyn
http://7starEPH.com